Hi, I'm Lindsay!
I am a queer cis ablebodied white settler living on the unceded and occupied territories of the Skwxwú7mesh-ulh Temíx̱w (Squamish), šxʷməθkʷəy̓əmaɁɬ təməxʷ (Musqueam), and səl̓ilwətaɁɬ təməxʷ (Tsleil-Waututh) nations. I'm also a highly sensitive/deeply feeling ex: engineer who has spent much of my adult life learning to hone and cherish this superpower.
My Story
I have been working in mental health for over 10 years following a significant career shift away from Civil Engineering. I came to this new career path following a challenging period in my life where I struggled with my mental health. During this time I benefited immensely from receiving counselling. I began to see the invaluable impact that a genuine, caring, non-judgemental and consistent support person in my life could have.
At different points along my journey of healing, I have needed different types of support. Today this guides my ultimate trust in being curious about what my clients are hoping for and how I can best meet them where they are at on their unique journeys. It is a personal philosophy of mine that I never ask clients to do work that I have not tried myself and that there is no cookie-cutter type of therapy.
We build the way we work together through being together in relationship.
My Aporoach
My Approach
My goal in any therapeutic relationship is to create a genuine experience between me and my clients. In counselling, my job is to honour your process, no matter what stage you are at, and create a space where you feel you can be fully yourself. I know that this can be surprisingly difficult to do.
Our culture, our families, our workplaces often tell us in many direct and indirect ways how we should and should not be. Over our lifetimes we learn to make ourselves small, to shape-shift to fit the mould. For many, this can be a process that keeps us emotionally, spiritually and physically safe when we are young, but as we grow, these patterns may no longer serve us.
I work with individuals who may on the outside seem as though they are doing "ok" but on the inside, they feel stuck or like something is missing. If you are reading this and feel ready to explore the parts of you you may have had to hide, change or neglect, you're in the right place!
I see counselling as a unique space where people can begin to discover who it is they want to be in the world and how to bring themselves fully into this life. This can be a daunting process and often can be difficult to do alone. In a safe, consistent, genuine and nurturing relationship, these layers can begin to be peeled back.
My philosophy is one of deep trust in every person I work with. I provide the environment and/or the tools you may be looking for to help you on your way to becoming you, but you are the one who holds the blueprint and the wisdom to get there.
I aim to work towards being as trauma-informed and anti-oppressive as possible in my work, knowing that this is a job of lifelong learning and un-learning.
Select Trainings
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Internal Family Systems 6-Month Online Circle Training
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Complete IFS Therapy Immersion: Integrating the Internal Family Systems (IFS) Model Across Clinical Applications
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Emotion Focused Family Therapy (2-day Core Training)
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Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT) Skills for Adolescents and Adults
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Complex Care Interventions (CCI) with Dr. Chuck Geddes
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Introduction to Synergetic Play Therapy (6-month online course)
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Cognitive Behavioural Therapy for Anxiety
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San'yas Indigenous Cultural Safety Training
Education
2017-2020
Masters of Counselling Psychology
Adler University
Vancouver, BC
2006-2010
Bachelors of Science in Civil Engineering (Environmental Stream)
Queen's University
Kingston, ON